Wirakelana

Friday, November 18, 2005

Level Of Relationship

Someone asked me "How many levels are there in a relationship?" That question made me think and after awhile I confidently answered 3 levels. I replied with a short explanation which is:

They are 'Discovery', 'Learn' and 'Accept'. Discovery is the first level of any relationship. It is a stage whereby we will start to discover many things, like each other good or bad points, ugly or beautiful side and inside out of a person. After discovering each other qualities or personalities then we have to start to learn. Learn from each other shortcomings. Learn from our own mistakes. Learn to be a better person not only for the other party but also for our own selve benifit. Then we have to accept. Accept we for what we are and for what they are and not for who we are or for who they are. Only after these 3 levels have been attained, then a relationship of a lifetime will last.

Simple as it may sound but to attained those 3 level is no 'chicken feet'. Hmmmm I wonder if I will ever attained all those levels....

*this writings and thoughts were not taken from any self-help or motivational book. It is purely 100% from the mind of a Quarter Century... My simple tots and humble say... All rights Reserved!

Riwayat wirakelana
11:37 AM

WiRakeLanA iBni pUtRaAndiKa...
ingin menjadi seorang wira dalam berkelana di kehidupan ini...
dalam erti singkat ingin menjadi seorang insan yang berjaya dalam apa jua bidang yang diceburi...
adalah pegawai dalam kerajaan, dah masuk "suku abad",
very sensitif and emotional at times, tak suka marah marah,
man of peace...

PrInsIp HiDupKu...
3b'S= Bersabar, Berusaha dan Berdoa pasti Berjaya...
Andai sebaliknya terjadi, itulah namanya Qada'dan Qadar.
Redha dan ikhlas menerima ketentuanNya... .

close to the nature, merenung bukan termenung, menyendiri,
gemar sekali tidur, luv to hang out wif my buddies,
"mengukur jalan" kaki merayap lar, BROWNIES and chocolate,
kesusasteraan melayu, luv clothings with stripes and khakis colour...

pple who do not know how to appreciate friendship,take things for granted
sanggup menjatuhkan org lain demi kepentingan sendiri, hypokrit
dependant on others
bla bla bla...

"Isteri bukanlah hak milik tetapi Anugerah..."